Love and Live

Loving someone is not about having them leave their old lives and live with you in a new, clean slate. It is accepting them for who they are and being a part of their every piece. It is when you embrace the differences between the two of you and learning to love what he or she does and wants to do. 

It is when you get excited to know a lot about him... from the smallest details of his hair to the biggest decisions he ever made. It is when you smile after seeing him have fun with friends and tells you everything about it... It is when you smitten with every single and small deeds he does for you. It is when you get curious about the things that he might like. It is when you are careful in the words that you say, and think about it many times before you utter it so that you may not hurt him, or make him feel sad or embarrassed. It is when you get star struck when you know something new about him that you never ever imagined he may have. 

I believe that love is more than just accepting... it is more defined as giving what you have without expecting anything in return. It is when you give extra efforts to make him a birthday present... it is when you exert effort to help him do things that he might not able to do alone.

But never forget that if we love, it is when we get hold of who we are while extending our arms outward. It is when we never forget who we really are but trying to develop and grow as a person. We may sometimes be mistaken with the feelings of desire and lust. But it is in true love that we will find our true happiness, without compromising those people who are near to us, and especially ourselves and those who define us even before the subject of feelings came.

Now I know these things, but the application can be a little difficult. But what makes you realize that is true love? It is when you will never feel tired of doing these things and when you feel that everything goes smoothly without you noticing it. I believe that in every man's essence, there is love where all is rooted. There is that seed of  love where all we need is to tap it and give it time to grow... give it time to have the best condition it could have to become the best tree ever. 

Never forget to love... because it is the best feeling ever been discovered and felt. It is the best thing and the strongest one you could ever have. Learn to love... then you will learn to live.

<3 <3 <3

~dieheartel~